Friday, February 25, 2011


how the heck are you supposed to walk in these?! -.-

Monday, February 21, 2011

for the 1st time, i can blame bad luck.
for the 2nd time, i have no one else to blame but myself.

please wake up! how much more time and money do you wanna spend on this? everything comes with effort. so just buckle up already!
RESULTS COMING OUT TODAY!
CRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP!

keeping my fingers crossed. pray for me people!

T__________T

Thursday, February 17, 2011

myf #1


a truly inspirational encounter with the ladies. inspiration to do good and not otherwise. somethings are not worth trying. we all know that. but it was from talking to them that i truly realize it. it's easy to get hooked onto it but it's not easy to get rid of it. family plays an important role but for some, their families don't even wanna have anything to do with them.their friends do not know of their problems. so who else can they depend on when it gets rough and tempting? nothing but god. they can't even depend on themselves because the desire is too strong. only god. i pray that He will continue to be their strength and guide throughout their lives. because it's a constant battle that's hard to win.

glad i went with the myf people. truly an eye-opener. and the girls are nice! (:
不需要刻意讨好别人,毕竟要和自己过一辈子的人,还是自己不是吗?


或许会觉得我很自私  很自我
对  我知道人与人的相处是互相的  没有人可以只靠自己而活
但是一直活在别人的期待与讨论上
试问我们该怎么活下去
不断地遵从
不断地跟随
接下来的只是无止境的后悔和遗憾

我不想在将来悔恨
也不想在那个时候责怪别人

我宁愿做个自私的人
掌控自己的人生
自己的快乐
自己的选择

我知道你的苦衷
也明白你的忧虑
既然事已定局  我也不想再多说什么
只是希望你快乐  你不悔  你可以放下

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

joycelyn turned 21 :D


went over to joyce's crib for an early birthday celebration. a simple one with friends and her family members. great opportunity for the old girls to meet for some catch up sessions. some of them i've not seen since high school graduation! goodness have we all changed. but deep inside we're still the noisy bunch from kuencheng high, which is a relief to know. :D

the journey to her place was pretty chaotic i would say. being the only person among the few of us who've actually been there, i took on the role of leading them there. despite some wrong turns and dead-ends, we manage to arrive there just fine. *imagine doing few U-turns without power steering. i've helped build some muscles for tingfang. :p*

to cut it short, had an awesome time with this bunch of awesome ladies! who's turning 21 next? :p


happy birthday, babe~ :D


p/s 1: tingfang's car had this stepthebrake-andthealarmwillgooff-thing going on. THE highlight of the night. xD
p/s 2: joyce mum's jelly-s are THE BOMB! too bad there weren't enough to go around.

Friday, February 11, 2011

白羊座



之所以说白羊座的人值得爱,并不是因为他们有多优秀,而恰恰是因为他们的不完美……

在白羊座的字典里永远没有“利用”两个字,他们不懂得什么叫阿谀奉承,什么叫阳奉阴违,白羊座的人选择人做朋友永远是看你是否“值得交”,而不是看你是否“有价值”。

在白羊座的字典里永远没有“上赶着”三个字,白羊座的人永远只会去留意那些善意的向他们示好的人们,而不会为了达到某种目的去刻意与人攀关系。

白羊座的人并不是真的“很傻很无邪”,而是“很真很潇洒”,他们并不是不了解现实的残酷,并不是看不穿人与人之间利益的熏染,而是他们不想争,不想争并不代表没有野心,不想争并不是因为无能,而是在他们看来,一辈子的友情远远值钱于那短暂的利益……

就算有一天白羊座的人想去争了也是选择“增加自己绳子的长度”,而不是费劲脑汁地扯断别人的绳子……白羊座的人永远不会为了所谓的“自己的利益”而与朋友撕破脸,他们这种不易被察觉的豁达是一般星座人比不了的。

永远不要和白羊座的人玩心机,他们不计较不代表他们傻,不要因为自己占了白羊座便宜就沾沾自喜,不要以为你伤害了重友情的他们他们就会为此而苦恼……白羊座的热情和绝情只在转瞬间,他们只在乎在乎他们的人,对于他们来说被骗点感情和钱不算什么,说的再讽刺一点就是多你一个不多,少你一个不少,如果你选择背叛出卖他们,都不用他们刻意的把你当屁放了,你自己就顺理成章的把自己归为不是个玩意那堆里了。

你可以有本事让白羊座的人“认输”“认栽”“认倒霉”,但是白羊座人的字典里永远没有“认错”两个字,明明他们也知道是自己的错。请原谅白羊座人这个最大的毛病——好面子,其实他们心里特别想跟你和好,所以这个时候希望你能给他们一个小小的台阶下……我敢说他们马上就会主动反省,向你道歉的。

白羊座的人脾气急,易冲动。与白羊座的人相处要时刻绷紧神经,要紧跟他们的步伐,这样才会让他们感觉到与你合作的痛快、默契,合拍。

白羊座的人永远都是刀子嘴豆腐心他们最毒的地方永远都是那张一天白呼个没完没了的嘴,请不要怕与白羊座的人争吵,因为只要他们还能跟你说话,就说明事情还没到不能商量不能解决的地步,说明他们还没有真的生气真正被惹怒的白羊座往往是连瞅都不稀瞅你的。

白羊座永远都是那么的倔强,如果他们讨厌一个人,就一定要表现出来,一定要让那个人知就算水深火热当中,也绝对要咬紧牙关绝不张口向那个人请求支援……所以说抗战时期的白羊座如果被俘虏了绝对是死的最惨的那批。

白羊座的人最为真实,他们把怒哀乐都表现在脸上,不懂得什么是伪装,什么叫强颜欢笑,从来都是有一说一,有二就不会说三。

就算你很风骚,或很坏,白羊座的人都不会介意,只要你表现的真实,骚但不装清纯,坏但不藏心机,就会被白羊座的人欣赏。

如果你与他们冷战很久想要缓解,慢慢来,别太热情,会吓到小白羊的,会让他们觉得受宠若惊,他们不太会表达自己的感情,不知道怎么去回报别人,可是对他们好的他们会永远记得,有好东西一定与你分享,如果你们分享不到他们的东西,那一定是因为他们没钱而不是不想花钱。

白羊座的人在正常情况说出的话就一定是真的,请相信他们。白羊座的人最讨厌的就是自以为是的人,那种总是用自己的思想去揣摩他们心理得人。他们最讨厌别人对他们的话不相信,然后说什么“你是不是这么想的你心里清楚”之类的话……白羊座的人会觉得特别委屈。要记住社会再黑暗,人们再圆滑,也还是有一些人保持心中的那一份净土,对别人坦诚的,那就是白羊座。

白羊座的人很难做人的,其实他们骨子里相当孤傲的,很喜欢安静,不喜欢多说话,可是又不得不想让周围的人因为他们的存在而感到快乐和幸福!所以,稍微稳当点的白羊座会被人说成清高,活泼点的就被人说成“二”……请理解白羊座,清高的并没有瞧不起谁,“二”的只是为了你们能开心,幸福。

白羊座的人值得去爱,愿爱着白羊的孩子们永远幸福!

source: facebook


超喜欢那句 '所以说抗战时期的白羊座如果被俘虏了绝对是死的最惨的那批.'
好彩我生活在风平浪静的年代. :p

Thursday, February 3, 2011


why does it has to be this way?

happy rabbit year! :D


reunion dinner was the same old steamboat. it's becoming the chin family tradition. -.- mum proposed to have kfc for a change this year. *prices of everything rockets sky high during cny, but kfc prices are still the same - she said*  but our mr chin did not approve of it so, steamboat it is!

wishing everyone a blessed new year with good health, wealth, love and kindness for the next year. and also for me, to pass all my papers! praying hard for a smooth pass from december10 sitting. my heart can't take any more failures. :D

god bless everyone!