有这么一个女孩

她有点懒，她不擅长做家务。

　　她独立，也好强，她宁愿忍受太多的寂寞和痛苦也不愿意向别人提起。
　　
　　但其实骨子里，渴望有一个避风港湾，让她去依靠。但她不会承认。
　　
　　她必须确定那个人是否可以承受得了这一切的，承受她的撒娇，她的无理取闹，她的倔强，她的悲观，她所有的性格缺陷且永远不离不弃。
　　
　　只有这样，她才放心，可以放心去继续做自己，不会害怕有一天将要面对失去。如果没有，那么她只好继续寂寞和孤独。
　　
　　她对爱情没有安全感，也不会给别人安全感。
　　
　　她一定要对方先流露出对她有好感，她才散发她的热情。她爱的永远是对她最好的那个，那个好她心里是有一个标准的，你的积分超过了那条线，她会爱上你，但大多数人没超过线之前就离开了，或者超过了之后没等她看到就离开了。
　　
　　其实她要的并不多，她要的只是一个温暖的家。对她来说太重要了，虽然在她们口中说出来的却是：我不需要爱情。
　　
　　当你紧张他的异性朋友，她会一面跟你说，他只是我的谁谁谁，却一面偷偷在意你的感受。。。
　　
　　对她们而言，唯一具备杀伤力的只有感情，感情如果受到挫折，要么毁了她们，要么成就了她们。从此更加漠然，专注于事业。
　　
　　她分手后完全不会像其他座在人面前要死要活，她嬉笑怒闹，变得更加开朗。在听到朋友说有关他的话题时，从不刻意回避，她适当参与，淡然微笑，她的表现总会遭人怀疑这段感情的深浅，而人群中只有那些知道背后情节的人才看见她背后的眼泪和努力。
　　
　　
　　
　　她从来不会在情人面前大声哭泣，除非她真的崩溃了。
　　
　　即使在你爱着她的时候，她也会胡思乱想让自己悲伤。
　　
　　如果你看到她的眼泪，请相信这绝不是她在博取同情，这是她这样一颗内心骄傲的女子不得己的场景。
　　
　　她想对你负责，对她负责，对自己的过去和未来负责，但请你不要轻易给她承诺和誓言。她很难相信。
　　
　　即使她很难相信，但她还是会选择等待。
　　
　　她的伤初始浓烈似酒，很快就会变为一杯水，却让水渗入生活成为点点滴滴.她选择在其中淡定，在其中沉默和内伤。
　　
　　她就是这样，强势，霸道，任性。。。
　　
　　不会讨人欢心，死要面子，她爱朋友多过你。
　　
　　她最有保护欲，最没有秘密。
　　
　　最暴躁，最善变，最没耐心，最冲动，最耐不住寂寞却又喜欢假惺惺的让自己一个人呆着。
　　
　　有时候她又充满阳光的气息，爱笑爱说话，活蹦乱跳，可爱迷人。。
　　
　　她很自私，只愿意与人同甘，不愿意让别人跟她共苦。
　　
　　她的家庭不一定很是富裕，但她都是习惯了养尊处优。
　　
　　她喜欢热闹，总会成为聚会的焦点，前提是她想。
　　
　　她也享受孤独，会静坐在一个人的房间听着很伤感的音乐。
　　
　　她也会一整天呆在房间里心情压抑低落，但第二天一早起来，又会轻轻松松的打理一切，慌慌忙忙的拽着大衣拎着包往外冲。
　　
　　她习惯在人前表现的很坚强，一付大女子主义的模样。
　　
　　她会想，遇到真正懂她爱她宠她的人，她就一定就会很安静，心甘情愿的安静下来，不烦，不闹，按时吃饭按时睡觉，按时做一切能安心和他一起做的事情。
　　
　　她从不轻言爱，她的爱很沉默，那并非是因为她缺少那份勇气，在她的心里有一道栅栏，那就是自尊。
　　
　　她看得比生命更尊贵的自尊。
　　
　　
　　
　　如果有一个这样的女孩对你说她爱你，那就代表在她的心里你的分量胜过了她的自尊。
　　
　　你不了解她，不懂她的好，就别爱她。她会在真正爱她的人面前卸掉所有的盔甲和伪装，做个幸福的小女人，她不要求你要做什么，不会无理取闹要你陪着她，她有自己的生活，她给你空间因为她也需要空间。
　　
　　她也会幻想，在遇到真正的他时，会在他累的时候悄悄熬上点营养粥，然后说，看你这么不辞劳累本姑娘心情又不错犒劳犒劳你。
　　
　　她在你面前永远性感调皮，偶尔撒撒娇，跟你玩陌生人的游戏，在你的朋友面前从来大方得体，微笑的依偎在你身边。
　　
　　她不让你给她买这买那，她会说，我啊，是大女人，不喜欢男人给我买单。。。但是心里却会为你私自买给她的礼物而暗自开心，因为女人觉得那是你的宠爱。
　　
　　她在意的是你的心，你若真心，她必然实意。最起码你得表现的真心，能让她感觉得到。
　　
　　她会经常冒出些新鲜的想法来调剂生活，她的多变有时会让你不安。
　　
　　终有一天，她的敏感在你的呵护下慢慢消失不见，她的倔强被你的保护软化，她的伪装在你面前被轻易识穿。。。
　　
　　得到她，别骄傲，因为没人可以吃定她。
　　
　　只有懂她的人，才会得到她的好。
　　
　　她有时是有些迟钝的，在感情方面，但有时很敏感，因为她在乎。
　　
　　她有时想，当她遇上生命中的那个人，会爱的多么浓烈，她渴望那种不计后果的极致，然后在强烈的碰撞中享受那种心痛感。
　　
　　
　　
　　所以，别爱这样的女孩，她太偏激，太虚伪，太粗心，又太神经质，太难伺候，太不温柔。。。
　　
　　如果你没勇气，没能力可以坚持爱她，就别爱她。
　　
　　因为如果你会离开，她的心将会永远冰封，再也不会为任何人打开。。。。。。

great love

my mom only had one eye. I hated her... She was such an embarrassment. She cooked for students & teachers to support the family.

There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to say hello to me.

I was so embarrassed.

How could she do this to me? I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out.
The next day at school one of my classmates said, 'EEEE, your mom only has one eye!'

I wanted to bury myself. I also wanted my mom to just disappear.
I confronted her that day and said, ' If you're only goanna make me a laughing stock, why don't you just die?'

My mom did not respond...
I didn't even stop to think for a second about what I had said, because I was full of anger. I was oblivious to her feelings.

I wanted out of that house, and have nothing to do with her. So I studied real hard , got a chance to go abroad to study. Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. I had kids of my own. I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts.

Then one day, my mother came to visit me. She hadn't seen me in years and she didn't even meet her grandchildren.

When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her, and I yelled at her for coming over uninvited. I screamed at her, 'How dare you come to my house and scare my children! GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!'

And to this, my mother quietly answered, 'Oh, I'm so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address,' and she disappeared out of sight.

One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house.

So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip. After the reunion, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity.

My neighbors said that she died. I did not shed a single tear.
They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have.

My dearest son,
I think of you all the time. I'm sorry that I came to your house and scared your children.
I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you.
I'm sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you when you were growing up.

You see........when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye.
As a mother, I couldn't stand watching you having to grow up with one eye.
So I gave you mine.
I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye.

With all my love to you,
Your mother

story telling...

copied this from a friend's blog

i was impressed by the little boy's faith to God
and also his love for his mother and sister

read on..

I was walking around in a Target store, when I saw a Cashier hand this little boy some money back.
我在「塔杰」商店闲逛时，看到收银员将一些钱退还给小男孩。

The boy couldn ' t have been more than 5 or 6 years old.
这男孩不过5、6岁。

The Cashier said, ' I ' m sorry, but you don ' t have enough money to buy this doll. '
收银员说：『抱歉！你买这娃娃的钱不够。』

Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him: "Granny,
are you sure I don ' t have enough money?"
小男孩转向他旁边的老妇人：
「奶奶！你也认为我的钱不 吗？」

The old lady replied: "You know that you don ' t have enough money to buy this doll, my dear."
老妇人回道：「亲爱的！你知道买这个娃娃的钱是不够的。」

Then she asked him to stay there for just 5 minutes while she went to look around. She left quickly.
她要小男孩呆在那里5分钟，她一下就回来。 她迅速离开了。

The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand.
小男孩的手仍然握著娃娃。

Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give this doll to.
最後我向他走去，问他这个娃娃你想给谁。

'It ' s the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for Christmas.
『这是我妹妹的最爱，非常想要的圣诞节娃娃。

She was sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her. '
她一直认为圣诞老人会带娃娃来给她的。」
I replied to him that maybe Santa Claus would bring it to her after all, and not to worry.
我嬖V他不用担心，圣诞老人最後可能会带给她的。

But he replied to me sadly. ' No, Santa Claus can ' t bring it to her where she is now. I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my sister when she goes there. '
但他哀伤地回答我『不！圣诞老人不可能将它带到她现在的地方给她。我必须将娃娃交给我妈，当她去那里的时候可以给我妹妹。』

His eyes were so sad while saying this. ' My Sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mommy is going to see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister. ' '
他说话时的眼睛是哀伤的。『我妹妹已经和上帝在一起。爸爸说 妈妈很快也将要去见上帝，因此我认为她可以将娃娃带给我妹妹。』

My heart nearly stopped.
我的心脏几乎要停止了。

The little boy looked up at me and said: ' I told daddy o tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I come back from the mall. '
小男孩看我说：『我叫爸爸告诉妈妈现在不要走，让她等我从购物中心回来。』

Then he showed me a very nice photo of himself. He was laughing. He then told me ' I want mommy to take my picture with her so she won ' t forget me. '
然後他拿出一张他自己非常漂亮的相片给我看。他笑著告诉我『我要妈妈带著我的相片，这样她就不会忘记我了。』

'I love my mommy and I wish she didn ' t have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister. '
『我爱我的妈妈，我希望她不要离开我，但是爸爸说她必须去找我妹妹。』

Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly.
然後他安静地用哀伤的眼睛再看著娃娃。

I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. ' Suppose we check again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll! ' '
我赶紧摸著钱包对小男孩说『我们再检查一下，说不定您有足够的钱买玩偶! 』

'OK ' he said, ' I hope I do have enough. ' I added some of my money to his without him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll and even some spare money.
『好呀！』他说『我希望有足够的钱』。没让他看见，我塞了一些钱到他的钱包中，我们开始数钱。买娃娃的钱足 了，甚之还有剩余呢。

The little boy said: ' Thank you God for giving me enough money! '
小男孩说：『谢谢上帝给了我足 的钱!』

Then he looked at me and added, ' I asked last night before I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that mommy could give it to my sister. He heard me! ' '
然而他看著我补充说『昨晚睡前，我要求上帝让我的钱能足够买这个娃娃，因此妈妈能将它带给我妹妹。他听见我了! 』

'I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn ' t dare to ask God for too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll and a white rose. ' '
『我也想有足够的钱买一朵白玫瑰给我妈妈，但我不敢要求上帝太多。但他给的钱足 买娃娃和一朵白玫瑰了。』

'My mommy loves white roses. '
『我妈妈喜欢白玫瑰』。

A few minutes later, the old lady returned and I left with my basket.
几分钟後，老妇人回来了。我也就提了购物篮离开了。

I finished my shopping in a totally different state of mind from when I started.
我从一开始就在完全不同的心境下购物。

I couldn ' t get the little boy out of my mind.
小男孩一直无法离开我的心境。

Then I remembered a local news paper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a truck, who hit a car occupied by a young
woman and a little girl.
我想起两天前当地报纸的一篇文章，提及一位醉酒卡车司机，撞上了一辆载著年轻少妇和一个小女孩的汽车。

The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical
state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the
life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to recover from the coma.
小女孩当场死亡，母亲呈现弥留状态。 这个家庭必须决定是否要拔出维持生命机器的插管 ，因为年轻少妇不可能从昏迷中恢复。

Was this the family of the little boy?
他就是这家庭的小男孩？

Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the news paper that the young woman had passed away.
碰到小男孩的二天之後，我看了报纸年轻少妇过世了。

I couldn ' t stop myself as I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where the body of the young woman was for people to see and make last wishes before her burial.
我不自主的买了一束白玫瑰，来到丧家，年轻少妇的遗体在她埋葬前让人瞻仰与最後许愿。

She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest.
她在那里，装在棺木中，在她的手中握著一朵白玫瑰和小男孩的相片，娃娃则放置在她的胸口。

I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling that my life had been changed for ever.. The love that the little boy had for his mother and his sister is
still, to this day, hard to imagine.
我离开了这里，眼泪夺眶而出，觉得我的人生已经永远改变了。至今，小男孩对他母亲和妹妹的爱，仍然难以想像。

And in a fraction of a second, a drunk driver had taken all this away from him.
就在一转眼工夫，一位醉酒司机夺去了他的所有。

anyone feeling teary??

*gives tissue*

xD