no one can help you decide when to get back on your two feet. only you can do that for yourself.
no one can wake you up from your delusional dreams. only you can do that for yourself.

再见不再是朋友

they say it takes courage to hold on. i say it takes even more courage to know when to let go. 

to hold on you just need to continue doing what you've been doing all along and hoping the end result would be as what you expected. but to let go? you need to make up your mind that no this is not going to work, this is not for me, i was wrong, i need to end this. which is harder? 

many of times we tend to keep 'holding on' is not because it's the right thing to do, but because it's the easiest thing to do.

life isn't all about the good things. sometimes you need to throw out the bad things so God could put more good things in. 

clear up the mess in your life. throw things that you don't need. addiction. bad relationships. laziness. the list goes on. 

as painful and harsh this may be, giving up is part of growing up. you can't move forward if all you care about is the past. realize that it's not gonna work and move on. it will hurt now i'm sure, but rest assured when it hurts the most, that's when the wound starts to heal. 

let go. 

sexy clap ♥

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

latest crazy obsession of mine! 

sorry i just can't help it.

友谊的邂逅

原本以为会安安静静地渡过这6个月
没想到  偶然的一个询问  亲切的一个帮忙
就认识了你这文静友善的女孩

虽然认识的时间不长
对彼此的认知也不多
但也因为这样  更显得那无声守候的可贵

谢谢你这几个月来的陪伴
幸好有你  我才熬得过漫长又枯燥的edc
接下来的日子一起加油吧!


-  there's always a reason who God chooses to put in our life.

我们能不能不再这样继续下去?

我希望的  只是远远地观望着
保持着安全的距离

不去打扰  不去试探
不去关怀  也不去在乎

我的心境已不再一样
我厌倦  我反感  我有负担

我相信
这世界上没有谁  少了谁  会活不下去的

所以
我们能不能就这样  淡淡地  变成陌生人?

weather

it's kinda scary how fast the weather changes from bright and sunny to doomsday thunderstorm in a matter of minutes. think i'm joking? this has been happening for the past few days! i'm serious! just this afternoon while i was using the computer,  the birds were chirping and the sun was blazing HOT till the extent i was considering an ice cold shower. but few minutes later, i hear thunders and crackling lightnings, and the next second i was running downstairs to bring in the laundry. the thought of cold shower flew out of my mind as i enjoy the cool breeze while gawking at the sudden rain. everything is so unpredictable these days even the bright shiny sun couldn't stay put for a day. LOL okay i dunno where that came from. i've no idea what was i trying to say. anyhow, random post with an even more random ending. okaybye.

好朋友只是朋友  还是朋友

不能够占有

好朋友疯狂以后

就一个人走  无所求

—— 郁可唯  ◆  好朋友只是朋友

i need!

旅行使我们变得谦虚

因为对这个世界来说我们是如此的渺小

- 西藏